If he's caught, he'll do his best to make it seem that he's innocent, even to the point of questioning your integrity or sanity for suspecting him. You've been hanging out with this guy for a while and everything is great. How do you know when a sex addict is lying?
At my worst, I was carrying on three or four relationships at once outside of my primary one. Most addicts would stop if they could. The worst place for you, and your addict, is the place that stays within the lie.
You see what you see. He always logs out of his email and Facebook, even if he just goes away from his computer for a couple of minutes. He never leaves it lying around. He also spends a lot of time being suspicious of you and acts like you're the untrustworthy one.
Why are you going after me? Our process ensures that no one but you will know your results. So what do you do if your partner is exhibiting three or more of these signs? It was because of that conversation that I went and got help. They may be going through a tough time.
Difficulty focusing on day-to-day events, such as picking the kids up from school, work projects, maintaining a home, etc. He may tell you he makes more money than he really does. S alone.